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Author Archives: raisingmyrainbow
“How To Drive Your Mom Crazy,” By C.J.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of you moms and female primary caregiver adults out there!! Just in time for the holiday, C.J. has written instructions for how to drive your mom crazy. xoxo, Lori
My Sons’ Reaction To Bruce Jenner
Matt and I decided to watch the Bruce Jenner’s 20/20 interview with our sons. And, we’re so glad we did because it was really great, respectful and educational. We didn’t make a big announcement; we just turned on the television … Continue reading
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Tagged 20/20, Diane Sawyer, Gender, Gender Stereotypes, Grayson Bruce, LGBTQ, parenting, transgender
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C.J. Is Banana Man
I’m lucky to have two kids who love each other, mostly get along, play well together and sometimes hold hands when no one is looking. Lately, their favorite way to pass time is to jump on our trampoline together. Even … Continue reading
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Tagged Banana Man, Brothers, Chase, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, invisible friend, Orange County, parenting
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I Love You, Son
Someone recently asked Matt if he thinks he’s too hard on C.J. and his brother at some moments and too easy on them at others. The line of questioning irritated me because Matt is an amazing father. The next day, … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Raising gay child, raising a gay child, parenting, Raising My Rainbow, gender nonconforming, gender creative, LGBTQ, Dad, Matt, fatherhood
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West Hollywood Wig Out Birthday Spectacular
“Where are you going for your birthday party?” one of C.J.’s girl friends asked him while they were play-dating at our house the week before his birthday. “West Hollywood,” he said casually, as if every second-grader in Orange County knows … Continue reading
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Tagged Birthday, Birthday Party, gender creative, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Monster High, parenting, The Abbey, West Hollywood, wigs
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C.J.’s Birthday Part I: The Playdate
C.J.’s eighth birthday was on February 1, which was also Super Bowl Sunday, which a lot of people thought was really cool, except for C.J. Luckily, Katy Perry’s halftime show made the day bearable for him. Because of the NFL’s … Continue reading
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Tagged Annie, Birthday, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, LGBTQ, Littlest Pet Shop, Monster High, My Little Pony, Orange County, parenting, Shopkins
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When Your Child’s Boy Friend Becomes Their Girl Friend
C.J. met Samuel about three years ago when Samuel was a boy named Samuel. Now, Samuel is a girl named Sophia. Initially, C.J. and Samuel bonded over being boys who liked to be mermaids in water and princesses on land. … Continue reading
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Tagged Gender, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, trans, transgender, transition
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