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Tag Archives: Orange County
My Son: Wigging Out
C.J.’s birthday is six months away, so – naturally — he thinks it’s time to start planning his party. Last year we celebrated with lunch, shopping and pierced ears for his doll at the American Girl store in Los Angeles. … Continue reading
Every Voice Can Be Powerful No Matter Its Volume
PFLAG Moms come in all shapes, sizes, colors, personalities, temperaments and advocacy styles. One of my all-time favorite PFLAG Moms, Lisa, has a personality and advocacy style that are quiet, gentle, kind and steady. She’s an elementary school teacher near … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Gay pride, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Lisa, Orange County, parenting, PFLAG, PFLAG Mom, raising a gay child, Raising gay child, Raising My Rainbow
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Raising My Rainbow Audiobook Giveaway!!!!!
The audiobook version of Raising My Rainbow was released by Audible today. Yay! Want a free copy? Cool, read on to learn how to enter to win. Now, I share with you the top five things I learned while narrating the … Continue reading
Tuesday Fodder: Tom Goss, Illuminate the Dark Edition
Things that recently caught and held my attention… You have got to watch the latest music video from indie musician and human rights activist Tom Goss. Illuminate the Dark shows that beauty takes many forms and that each individual possesses the … Continue reading
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Tagged BlogHer, Camp Aranu'tiq, Gender, gender nonconforming, Illuminate The Dark, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, PFLAG, Tom Goss, Voices of the Year, VOTY
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My 10 Year Old Downloaded Grindr
“This app is taking forever to load,” my 10-year-old son Chase said as I was driving. It was just the two of us in the car and he was fiddling with his iPhone*. “What app is it?” I asked. He … Continue reading
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Tagged Birthday, Chase, Grindr, iPhone, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, raising a gay child
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Friday Fodder: I’m Speaking In Massachusetts Edition
On Thursday (April 10), The Center School in Greenfield, Massachusetts, has invited me to speak about parenting, teaching and promoting advocacy for differently gendered children. The event begins at 7 p.m. at Smith College and it’s FREE! If you’re in … Continue reading
C.J. At Age 100
C.J. recently celebrated his 100th day of first grade. On that day, he had to fill in the blanks about what his life will be like when he is 100 years old. He also had to draw a picture. When … Continue reading
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Tagged 100, first grade, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Orange County, parenting
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Friday Fodder: Rainbows At Play Edition
One week ago, we launched Rainbows At Play – an online community where families raising gender creative kids and/or allies can connect to playdate and find fierceness in numbers. The response has been overwhelming, exhausting and exhilarating. In the first … Continue reading
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Tagged Bestie, Gay, Gay pride, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, LGBTQ, Nerdy Apple, Orange County, Rainbows At Play, Stonewall
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Introducing Rainbows At Play!
It all started years ago when we went looking for other families like our own — families raising gender bending boys who like wearing skirts and playing with dolls. We came up with nothing…until we found each other. Every day … Continue reading







