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Tag Archives: Raising My Rainbow
C.J.’s Brother Comes Out
C.J.’s Brother is 10 and he has come out. He is straight. Months ago we had a family date night. The four of us went out for Chinese food and, then, I needed to walk next door to the grocery … Continue reading
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Tagged C.J.'s Brother, Gay, Gay pride, gender creative, homosexual, LGBTQ, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, sex, sex talk, straight, tampons
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New Look and New Friends
Okay. Don’t Panic. I’ve refreshed the look and feel of my blog to more closely resemble the cover of my book. Yay! I’m really excited about it and think that it conveys C.J.’s light and sparkly spirit. C.J. likes the … Continue reading
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Tagged Circle of Moms, Design is Good, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Orange County, Raising My Rainbow, twirl
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He Knows He’s Gender Nonconforming
C.J. and I were at the park on a sunny summer day when we ran into a girl from his kindergarten class and her mother. As the kids played, the mom and I got to talking about our respective summer … Continue reading
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Tagged Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, homosexual, Kindergarten, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, transgender
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My Son’s Many Walks
How many walks does your son have? Because my gender creative son has four walks not including his normal everyday walk, which he refers to as his boring walk. He’s named all of his walks. Naturally. He keeps his four … Continue reading
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Tagged Avril Lavigne, Beyonce, effeminate, Fashion, Gay pride, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, Walks
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My Son Is Not Blue He Is Pink
In honor of LGBT Families Day (June 3, 2013), GLAAD contacted me and asked me to publish something on a topic related to LGBT families. Instead of a blog post, I wrote the following poem. My son is not blue … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Gay pride, gender creative, gender nonconforming, GLAAD, LGBT Families Day, LGBTQ, Raising My Rainbow
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My Son The Dressmaker
One of the things that I remember most about my maternal grandmother is that she loved to sew. And, she was damn good at it. Like, she could whip up a prom dress if you needed one at the last … Continue reading
David Burtka & Neil Patrick Harris Present Raising My Rainbow
It has been two weeks since I announced that I’ve penned a book inspired by my blog and that it will be released on September 3. And, the responses, comments and emails of support have been overwhelming and much-needed. I’m … Continue reading







