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Tag Archives: gender nonconforming
You Might Want To Sit This One Out…
As I’ve written over the years, birthdays can be tricky when the birthday boy/girl is gender creative. Take C.J.’s last birthday for example; he had a Valentine’s-Day-themed-crafty-dress-up-party, wore a pink tutu and tiara and had nothing but “girl stuff” on … Continue reading
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Tagged Arabian Nights, Birthday, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Orange County, T.L.
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C.J.’s First Oscars
Since my invitations to the Oscars and the evening’s multiple fancy parties seemed to have gotten lost in the mail, I decided to watch the Oscars with Nana Grab Bags at her house. I took C.J. with me and Nana … Continue reading
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Tagged Brave, gender nonconforming, Oscars, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow
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Adopted Kids More Likely To Be Gender Creative?
Since starting my blog about raising a gender nonconforming child more than two years ago, I’ve been contacted by countless families who have found themselves in a parenting situation similar to mine. The families that reach out to me are … Continue reading
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Tagged Adoption, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow
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Your Gender Jokes Don’t Make Us Smile
If you haven’t noticed, I’m not a particularly good photographer. I’m not one of those mommy bloggers who uses a fancy DSLR camera with a snazzy homemade strap cover to capture vivid, crisp pictures of our daily, quirky lives. I … Continue reading
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Tagged gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, Orange County, parenting, photographer, photography, Raising My Rainbow, RHBH
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Birthday Party Success
C.J.’s Valentine’s Day themed, crafty, dress-up 6th birthday party — to which he wanted all of his friends to attend dressed as “rock-star sassy fairy ballerina Harajuku girls” — was a huge success! We are still recovering so this post will be … Continue reading
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Tagged Birthday, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, Harajuku, princess
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C.J. Turns Six In Style
You Are Invited to C.J.’s Valentine’s Day Themed, Crafty, Dress-Up 6th Birthday Party Saturday at 11 a.m. Lunch and sweets will be served. Crafts will be made. Dress to dazzle. Sparkles, glitter, tutus and pink are encouraged. You be you. … Continue reading
C.J. From Another Person’s Perspective
The author of this post is my very best friend KK, whom C.J. knows affectionately as Auntie KK. I love C.J.’s mom. She is my very best friend and my soul sister. We have been besties for more years than I care … Continue reading
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Tagged Christmas, effeminate, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, KK, Orange County, parenting, Raising My Rainbow
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I Dressed My Baby Boy In Blue, I’m An Idiot
“What’s all that stuff back there?! I see pink!” C.J. asked enthusiastically as I was driving him home from school. Crap. I didn’t have to turn around to know what he was pointing at. He had seen the shopping bags … Continue reading
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Tagged Baby Sarah, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, motherhood
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Friday Fodder
Things that are on my mind or that I’m digging this week… Inspired by my blog, a documentary filmmaker friend of mine is working on a new feature documentary project that follows the real-life adventures of ordinary families raising fabulously … Continue reading
Reflections: Raising My Rainbow Turns Two
Well, hello there 2013, what do you have in store for us this year? A friend of mine doesn’t like odd-numbered years because they are typically unlucky for her. I thought back on my odd-numbered years. My odd-numbered years include … Continue reading
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Tagged effeminate, Gay, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Monster High, raising a gay child, Raising My Rainbow
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