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Tag Archives: Orange County
C.J. Drafted By Seattle Sailors
“Mama, is this football or baseball that I’m playing right now?” C.J. asked as he attempted to field ground balls, looking completely overwhelmed. “You’re playing baseball. Do you like it?” I said. “No,” he said matter-of-factly. I said nothing. I … Continue reading
My Son’s Graduation Skirt
C.J.’s graduation from pre-kindergarten was overflowing with all of the pomp and circumstance that you’d expect to accompany the age-old right of passage marking the end of preschool (with its wait lists and tuition higher than a car payment) and … Continue reading
My Son Wears Girl Pajamas
Give C.J. a theme and he will run with it. This week had him running for five days straight. It was the last week of school and the Orange County Mommy Mafia was out in full force giving each day … Continue reading
We All Think We’re Right
We all think we’re right. I was reminded of that fact yesterday as I watched a video that has gone viral of a toddler in church, wearing his Sunday best, gripping a microphone in his pudgy little hands and singing … Continue reading
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Tagged homophobia, homophobic, Orange County, parenting, Raising My Rainbow, Video Boy
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Dresses as a Form of Punishment
“Where are you two troublemakers off to?” C.J.’s Dad asked as C.J. and I strode between him and his beloved flat screen on our way outside to squeeze in some scooter time before sunset. “We’re going to ride our scooters,” … Continue reading
Baby Shower Sex Reveal
I feel like a jaded, cynical old lady who should be chain smoking on a patio somewhere with cats milling about as I shake my head in amusement and disgust while I play solitaire and ignore the results of my … Continue reading
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Tagged baby, baby shower, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, Orange County, Raising My Rainbow, sex
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Sing Sow!
Setting: Chinese Food Restaurant, Friday Night, Orange County, Calif. “That guy is FAT! And HAPPY! I like his skirt!” C.J. said pointing to the restaurant’s statue of Buddha that was as tall as he is. C.J. put his arm around … Continue reading
A Few Things….
I haven’t done one of these housekeeping-type emails in 2012 and it’s long overdue, so here it goes. 1.) California State University, Fullerton – a university in our home county (shout out to the Titans!) – has just launched an extended … Continue reading







