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Tag Archives: Orange County
My Son’s Thoughts On The Homecoming Queen
C.J.’s Brother Chase loves football. He’s been playing flag football for the past four seasons and thinks that he’s ready to make the jump to tackle football with pads (and a much higher registration fee and time commitment). Tackle football … Continue reading
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Tagged Football, gender creative, gender nonconforming, High School, Homecoming, Homecoming Queen, Orange County, parenting
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Friday Fodder: Birthday Blogger Edition
As a birthday present to myself, I took the earlier part of the week off from blogging. I spent the time fixated on the fact that I’m now closer to 40 than I am to 30. The first email that … Continue reading
An Update About School
You all are the best. No. I mean it. THE BEST. After I wrote about the trials and tribulations of our first week of school, so many of you reached out to check on us, left comments on my blog … Continue reading
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Tagged gender creative, gender nonconforming, Justice, Kindergarten, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting
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New Look and New Friends
Okay. Don’t Panic. I’ve refreshed the look and feel of my blog to more closely resemble the cover of my book. Yay! I’m really excited about it and think that it conveys C.J.’s light and sparkly spirit. C.J. likes the … Continue reading
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Tagged Circle of Moms, Design is Good, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Orange County, Raising My Rainbow, twirl
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He Knows He’s Gender Nonconforming
C.J. and I were at the park on a sunny summer day when we ran into a girl from his kindergarten class and her mother. As the kids played, the mom and I got to talking about our respective summer … Continue reading
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Tagged Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, homosexual, Kindergarten, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, transgender
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Friday Fodder: We Have A Lot To Cover Edition
This week’s People magazine has a great article about a transgender girl named Nikki and her family. Read the first four paragraphs here. I feel the need to point out that Nikki is adopted, only because I’ve noticed and noted … Continue reading
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Tagged Farfaria, Gender Diversity, gender nonconforming, Orange County, People Magazine
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My Son’s Many Walks
How many walks does your son have? Because my gender creative son has four walks not including his normal everyday walk, which he refers to as his boring walk. He’s named all of his walks. Naturally. He keeps his four … Continue reading
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Tagged Avril Lavigne, Beyonce, effeminate, Fashion, Gay pride, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, Walks
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LGBTQ Politics on the Playground
I admit it; I can very easily get myself all worked up when people talk ignorantly about LGBTQ issues. Even when the person talking ignorantly is five years old. I should have more self-control, but I don’t. So there. “Mom, … Continue reading
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Tagged AIDS, first grade, Gay, Kindergarten, Orange County, parenting, playground, Queerty, same-sex marriage
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