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Author Archives: raisingmyrainbow
C.J. Defends NPH
“Mom, I got in a fight today at school,” C.J. said to me as I entered the house after a long day at work. “What?!” I said setting down my purse, laptop bag and workbag while trying to get my … Continue reading
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Tagged Academy Awards, Kindergarten, LGBTQ, Neil Patrick Harris, Tony Awards
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My Son’s Many Walks
How many walks does your son have? Because my gender creative son has four walks not including his normal everyday walk, which he refers to as his boring walk. He’s named all of his walks. Naturally. He keeps his four … Continue reading
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Tagged Avril Lavigne, Beyonce, effeminate, Fashion, Gay pride, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, LGBTQ, Orange County, parenting, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow, Walks
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Friday Fodder: Gender Spectrum, PFLAG and Navy SEAL Edition
Who’s going to the 2013 Gender Spectrum Conference? Me! The 2013 Gender Spectrum Conference is designed to create a welcoming and supportive community for all gender nonconforming youth, their allies, caregivers and professionals. The conference provides the most up-to-date quality … Continue reading
My Son Is Not Blue He Is Pink
In honor of LGBT Families Day (June 3, 2013), GLAAD contacted me and asked me to publish something on a topic related to LGBT families. Instead of a blog post, I wrote the following poem. My son is not blue … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Gay pride, gender creative, gender nonconforming, GLAAD, LGBT Families Day, LGBTQ, Raising My Rainbow
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Friday Fodder: Stop Everything You’re Doing Edition
Stop everything you’re doing and set your DVR to record The Hub’s new series titled SheZow!. It premieres tomorrow, June 1, at 12:30 p.m. EDT/9:30 a.m. PDT. Learn more about the series here. “Twelve-year-old Guy is an extreme dude who … Continue reading
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Tagged Gender, GLAAD, Millions of Moms for Love, Parisa, Parisa Taghizadeh, SheZow!, The Hub
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LGBTQ Politics on the Playground
I admit it; I can very easily get myself all worked up when people talk ignorantly about LGBTQ issues. Even when the person talking ignorantly is five years old. I should have more self-control, but I don’t. So there. “Mom, … Continue reading
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Tagged AIDS, first grade, Gay, Kindergarten, Orange County, parenting, playground, Queerty, same-sex marriage
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My Son The Dressmaker
One of the things that I remember most about my maternal grandmother is that she loved to sew. And, she was damn good at it. Like, she could whip up a prom dress if you needed one at the last … Continue reading
Friday Fodder: Whoopsie, Forgot To Publish This On Friday Edition
DEAR ABBY: I am a longtime reader but a first-time writer. My problem has been bothering me for some time now. We have a grandson who is 4 and very much a “princess boy.” He likes girl toys and dresses … Continue reading
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“My Mom” by C.J.
The following excerpts are from a book that C.J. made for me at school for Mother’s Day. The underlined portions were filled in by C.J. to complete the sentences. I think my mom is 48 years old. (I’ll have you … Continue reading







