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Author Archives: raisingmyrainbow
Things I Never Thought I’d Say to My Son: Post-Halloween Edition
I’m telling you, Lady Gaga is NOT Selena Gomez’s mommy. Come here, honey. With your wig tied back like that you look like Paul Revere. Let’s braid it. That’s why we don’t wear wigs at the dinner table; it’s getting … Continue reading
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Garden Island Soup Recipe
I’ve had several requests for C.J.’s Brother’s signature dish: Garden Island Soup, which he will one day serve at his restaurant, The Greasy Dream. We’ve fine-tuned the recipe over the months, as you can see from the original recipe he … Continue reading
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Panties Above the Door
My BFF came charging out of the bathroom at the internet café on the island of Mykonos where we were chatting up the kiddos via FaceTime. As the oldest child, C.J.’s Brother dutifully held the iPad back in Cali. When … Continue reading
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If My Son Is Going To Hell, So Am I
I used to like going to church. My entire youth and early 20s were spent at church. I was there once, often twice a week, learning how to be a good Christian, playing broom hockey, taking gently worn shoes to … Continue reading
Here I Am!
Hey Everybody! Some of you have noticed that I went M.I.A. last week. I was actually in Greece on “holiday” as super-fancy people here in the states call it; the rest of us call it vacation. Either way, C.J.’s Dad … Continue reading
C.J. Starts Soccer
“Ohhhh, Mama, I look like a soccer player!” C.J. is standing in front of my mirrored closet twisting back and forth at the waist, watching his shimmery black athletic shorts — which are two sizes too big — sway below … Continue reading
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Things I Never Thought I’d Say to My Son, Part 3
• You can’t wear that pink headband to the rodeo, I don’t think the cowboys will appreciate it. • You can wear your new tap shoes to bed tonight, but we can’t make this a habit. • Little boys who … Continue reading
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Starting School With Ms. Sensible
C.J.’s first day of pre-k at his new school (the school his older brother attends) started last Monday. The Thursday before school started, I popped into his classroom to see if, by chance, his teacher was there preparing for her … Continue reading
Maybe Brown Lip Gloss Just Isn’t the Right Color for Our Son
Nana Grab Bags bought C.J. a new lip gloss on a necklace; which is his fav-o-rite accessory this season. Here it is with the lip gloss closed. And, here it is with the café mocha-flavored lip gloss exposed. I pointed … Continue reading







