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A Father’s Nightmare
Last week, C.J. had to have a small dental procedure done that required him to go under anesthesia. Of course his dad and I were a nervous wreck the weeks and days leading up to the morning of the 7 … Continue reading
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Tagged anesthesia, Bad Dream, C.J.'s Dad, Dentist, Gender, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Nightmare, Orange County, parenting
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I Don’t Expect To Be A Grandmother
C.J.’s Brother was invited to a laser tag birthday party at the local open-air mall. It was a Friday night and I left C.J. at home with his dad to take C.J.’s Brother to the party and hang out — … Continue reading
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Which Straight Parent Gives Sex Talk To Gay Child?
I was in fifth grade. I boarded the school bus and a sixth grade girl asked me if I was virgin. “No,” I said giving her a dirty look and finding a seat. That sounded like a terrible thing to … Continue reading
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Tagged Gay, Gender, heterosexual, homosexual, procreation, puberty, sex, sex talk
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C.J.’s First Oscars
Since my invitations to the Oscars and the evening’s multiple fancy parties seemed to have gotten lost in the mail, I decided to watch the Oscars with Nana Grab Bags at her house. I took C.J. with me and Nana … Continue reading
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Tagged Brave, gender nonconforming, Oscars, Queerty, Raising My Rainbow
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C.J. Turns Six In Style
You Are Invited to C.J.’s Valentine’s Day Themed, Crafty, Dress-Up 6th Birthday Party Saturday at 11 a.m. Lunch and sweets will be served. Crafts will be made. Dress to dazzle. Sparkles, glitter, tutus and pink are encouraged. You be you. … Continue reading
I Dressed My Baby Boy In Blue, I’m An Idiot
“What’s all that stuff back there?! I see pink!” C.J. asked enthusiastically as I was driving him home from school. Crap. I didn’t have to turn around to know what he was pointing at. He had seen the shopping bags … Continue reading
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Tagged Baby Sarah, gender creative, gender nonconforming, Gender Stereotypes, motherhood
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Dear C.J.’s Kindergarten Teacher
Hi! I don’t know you and I won’t know you until after Labor Day, but I just wanted to take a minute to introduce myself and my son to you. I’m C.J.’s Mom and my son C.J. is gender nonconforming. … Continue reading
What My Son Has to Say to Dan Cathy of Chick-Fil-A
Dear Mr. Dan Cathy, My uncle is gay. I love my uncle and his boyfriend and all of his friends. We have fun and hangout. I don’t think it is right for you to give money to stop my uncle … Continue reading
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Tagged Chick-Fil-A, civil rights, Dan Cathy, equal rights, Gay, homosexual, Orange County, parenting, Raising My Rainbow
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